Showing posts with label blog. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blog. Show all posts
There are times in life when you feel so frustrated or desperate that all one can think of is just sitting down in dejection and giving up everything that you have worked for.

You are feeling down, dejected and depressed with the situations in your life and the events that have unfolded so far. Instead of the roses on your chosen path, all you can come across are the thorns, at every step of your life.

What can you do but to give up in despair thinking that this is what destiny has put in hold for you?

If you are right now at this point of your life, then this is the article for you to read. If not, you can easily ignore this and use your time somewhere else as time is the most precious thing in the world.

If you have continued reading the article then It is at this moment, you have to tell yourself that “ No, I won’t give up, no matter what happens and what I have to face.  I cannot give up on me inspite of the tough situations that I am facing.”

You know why? Because champions emerge only after facing the toughest road blocks in their lives.

After getting frustrated with her constant losses and criticism, Li Na, who recently won her first Australian Open in her third attempt, had thought of retiring just before last year’s Wimbledon. In her own words,

When we arriving in Wimbledon I say to Carlos, ‘Eh, Carlos, look, I want to retire’,” Li said. ”And normally I would think that Carlos for sure would say, ‘No, don’t do that, like we try’, but Carlos was like, ‘OK, let’s go home. Go. Yeah’. And I was like, ‘What?’

”In Chinese way, we didn’t like to speak out, so everything just holds [inside] for the self, so he say, ‘You should try to speak out to let us know what happens’. I was like, ‘OK, maybe we try, the last tournament, to see how it’s going in Wimbledon. If going well, I will continue. If not, maybe just over’. So he was like, ‘OK, let’s try it. One more chance’.”
Not to mention, if we look at Monica Seles, who was stabbed in her back while playing a match in 1993, struggled to recover mentally for almost two years before making her comeback to tennis. She was able to reach the finals of a GS and win Australian Open in 1996. The person who attacked her had told her that she was not pretty and that women should not be as thin as a bone. In her autobiography “Getting a Grip”, she gave a detailed account of the after effects of the attack: 
"Darkness had descended into my head. No matter how many ways I analyzed my situation, I couldn't find a bright side. Food became the only way to silence my demons. I'd walk into the kitchen, grab a bag of crisps and a bowl of chocolate ice cream, then head to the couch and eat in front of the television. I still don't know why my anguish found solace in food. Maybe I was subconsciously reacting to Parche's angry comment that 'women shouldn't be as thin as a bone.' If I padded myself with extra weight, I'd be protected from being hurt again."

But she still fought those demons and made a comeback on the tennis circuit. Although she was not as successful as she was before, but she did win a Grand Slam and reached the finals of another one. Also she will always know that she tried and did not give up when she easily could have hung up her boots.
These are just two of the many examples that can be touched upon to prove that true winners have emerged out from situations where they could have easily given up and pursued the easier option. Our minds always wants the easier way out and clings on the negatives of a situation rather than showing us hope. Frankly speaking, it is not the mind who is the guilty party. Everywhere around us if you see in our society, only negatives are reflected upon. Take any newspaper, media channel, sitcom everywhere you look around, it is filled with despair and sadness. In these moments, it is very important for all of us to remind our minds that great works have always been accomplished when they have faced the worst situations and in those times, had the guts to shout out their mind and tell themselves: Let’s try our best one more time and give ourselves one more chance.”


If only Li Na would have given up before Wimbledon, then she wouldn't have been the Australian Open champion once again. Always remember that there is somewhere a Li Na hidden in you before you decide to give up on your goals.

Roger Federer and The Much Hyped Age Factor

If you have any questions, you can contact me via twitter or facebook or my e-mail: [email protected]

Li Na - "Let’s try it. One more chance’

There are times in life when you feel so frustrated or desperate that all one can think of is just sitting down in dejection and giving up everything that you have worked for.

You are feeling down, dejected and depressed with the situations in your life and the events that have unfolded so far. Instead of the roses on your chosen path, all you can come across are the thorns, at every step of your life.

What can you do but to give up in despair thinking that this is what destiny has put in hold for you?

If you are right now at this point of your life, then this is the article for you to read. If not, you can easily ignore this and use your time somewhere else as time is the most precious thing in the world.

If you have continued reading the article then It is at this moment, you have to tell yourself that “ No, I won’t give up, no matter what happens and what I have to face.  I cannot give up on me inspite of the tough situations that I am facing.”

You know why? Because champions emerge only after facing the toughest road blocks in their lives.

After getting frustrated with her constant losses and criticism, Li Na, who recently won her first Australian Open in her third attempt, had thought of retiring just before last year’s Wimbledon. In her own words,

When we arriving in Wimbledon I say to Carlos, ‘Eh, Carlos, look, I want to retire’,” Li said. ”And normally I would think that Carlos for sure would say, ‘No, don’t do that, like we try’, but Carlos was like, ‘OK, let’s go home. Go. Yeah’. And I was like, ‘What?’

”In Chinese way, we didn’t like to speak out, so everything just holds [inside] for the self, so he say, ‘You should try to speak out to let us know what happens’. I was like, ‘OK, maybe we try, the last tournament, to see how it’s going in Wimbledon. If going well, I will continue. If not, maybe just over’. So he was like, ‘OK, let’s try it. One more chance’.”
Not to mention, if we look at Monica Seles, who was stabbed in her back while playing a match in 1993, struggled to recover mentally for almost two years before making her comeback to tennis. She was able to reach the finals of a GS and win Australian Open in 1996. The person who attacked her had told her that she was not pretty and that women should not be as thin as a bone. In her autobiography “Getting a Grip”, she gave a detailed account of the after effects of the attack: 
"Darkness had descended into my head. No matter how many ways I analyzed my situation, I couldn't find a bright side. Food became the only way to silence my demons. I'd walk into the kitchen, grab a bag of crisps and a bowl of chocolate ice cream, then head to the couch and eat in front of the television. I still don't know why my anguish found solace in food. Maybe I was subconsciously reacting to Parche's angry comment that 'women shouldn't be as thin as a bone.' If I padded myself with extra weight, I'd be protected from being hurt again."

But she still fought those demons and made a comeback on the tennis circuit. Although she was not as successful as she was before, but she did win a Grand Slam and reached the finals of another one. Also she will always know that she tried and did not give up when she easily could have hung up her boots.
These are just two of the many examples that can be touched upon to prove that true winners have emerged out from situations where they could have easily given up and pursued the easier option. Our minds always wants the easier way out and clings on the negatives of a situation rather than showing us hope. Frankly speaking, it is not the mind who is the guilty party. Everywhere around us if you see in our society, only negatives are reflected upon. Take any newspaper, media channel, sitcom everywhere you look around, it is filled with despair and sadness. In these moments, it is very important for all of us to remind our minds that great works have always been accomplished when they have faced the worst situations and in those times, had the guts to shout out their mind and tell themselves: Let’s try our best one more time and give ourselves one more chance.”


If only Li Na would have given up before Wimbledon, then she wouldn't have been the Australian Open champion once again. Always remember that there is somewhere a Li Na hidden in you before you decide to give up on your goals.

Roger Federer and The Much Hyped Age Factor

If you have any questions, you can contact me via twitter or facebook or my e-mail: [email protected]

As Jack looked back , he had regrets in life in many areas - Life, Career, Family…

It was the last day of his life and all he could say was " I wish I had known this long back"

His thoughts went back to the times when he graduated from the top MBA school and had one of the highest paying jobs in the world.  He had always lived a life of prosperity, succeeding from one step to another to finally end up being the CEO of the company he started working for.

Still looking back, he was sad and unhappy. During his youth, he thought having the biggest mansion and car was ultimate sign of happiness.

All he wanted today was one more chance to pursue his dream life: to become a photographer and travel all around the world.  One of his friends did advise him to take the risk and plunge into his passion, but he waived him off saying that he wanted job security and he will pursue his passion once he has enough money.

Later never came and year after year, he chased after money, wealth and fame. But he had no chance now and all he had was memories and his fear of failure which stopped him to do what he wanted? Does the story sound familiar to you?


How many times in our life, now when we look back and wish in our lives that we had the courage to take risks earlier. I was listening to a senior executive in Google who graduated from Stanford and his biggest advice to the graduates was to take risks early in their career and be open to new ideas/thoughts. How he wished, he could have taken risks and joined Google when it was 6 person company?

Don't we all have our goals and are bogged down by the norms of society and big corporate names when it comes to finding a job or sticking to the societal norms and then later in our life, we wish we could have been daring and open to new ideas.  We wish we had this daring and bold attitude  which will  not succumb to people's expectations. But why don't we convert our wish to a truth…There is only one answer:

FEAR OF FAILURE.


Ok , so let's look at the times, when we were born, we always wanted to try new things. Remember your first fall as a kid when you tried to walk or bike, remember how we were carefree…Do we still embody that same spirit and as it has happened to us in our childhood, if we did, more often than not we will come out and succeeded. Why? Because when you take risks, you know that you will never regret in future.

What's the worst that can happen if you follow your passion:  You will fail and still emerge out happy and strong in the end, knowing that you tried. In fact failure is the best thing that can happen to you because when you will fail, you will know that there cannot be any worse situation than you will be in. From there, the only way is up.

Here are a few examples:



“You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

Remember if you will not try, we will end up being Jack in our lives. So what can you do now?

You are not living your last day, so remember this


"The future doesn't matter, the past is gone. There is only now. And Now is enough. It is more than enough. It is everything and that is why you run, you run and you run. And after that you run even more to reach your goals."

Every week I will share one inspiration nugget like this .If you like my page and want to join me on the journey of discovering our successes and failures, Don't hesitate to join me on the road to freedom....:)

You can always subscribe this blog Feed or join me on Twitter or Facebook or contact me directly on [email protected]

I wish I had known this.....

As Jack looked back , he had regrets in life in many areas - Life, Career, Family…

It was the last day of his life and all he could say was " I wish I had known this long back"

His thoughts went back to the times when he graduated from the top MBA school and had one of the highest paying jobs in the world.  He had always lived a life of prosperity, succeeding from one step to another to finally end up being the CEO of the company he started working for.

Still looking back, he was sad and unhappy. During his youth, he thought having the biggest mansion and car was ultimate sign of happiness.

All he wanted today was one more chance to pursue his dream life: to become a photographer and travel all around the world.  One of his friends did advise him to take the risk and plunge into his passion, but he waived him off saying that he wanted job security and he will pursue his passion once he has enough money.

Later never came and year after year, he chased after money, wealth and fame. But he had no chance now and all he had was memories and his fear of failure which stopped him to do what he wanted? Does the story sound familiar to you?


How many times in our life, now when we look back and wish in our lives that we had the courage to take risks earlier. I was listening to a senior executive in Google who graduated from Stanford and his biggest advice to the graduates was to take risks early in their career and be open to new ideas/thoughts. How he wished, he could have taken risks and joined Google when it was 6 person company?

Don't we all have our goals and are bogged down by the norms of society and big corporate names when it comes to finding a job or sticking to the societal norms and then later in our life, we wish we could have been daring and open to new ideas.  We wish we had this daring and bold attitude  which will  not succumb to people's expectations. But why don't we convert our wish to a truth…There is only one answer:

FEAR OF FAILURE.


Ok , so let's look at the times, when we were born, we always wanted to try new things. Remember your first fall as a kid when you tried to walk or bike, remember how we were carefree…Do we still embody that same spirit and as it has happened to us in our childhood, if we did, more often than not we will come out and succeeded. Why? Because when you take risks, you know that you will never regret in future.

What's the worst that can happen if you follow your passion:  You will fail and still emerge out happy and strong in the end, knowing that you tried. In fact failure is the best thing that can happen to you because when you will fail, you will know that there cannot be any worse situation than you will be in. From there, the only way is up.

Here are a few examples:



“You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

Remember if you will not try, we will end up being Jack in our lives. So what can you do now?

You are not living your last day, so remember this


"The future doesn't matter, the past is gone. There is only now. And Now is enough. It is more than enough. It is everything and that is why you run, you run and you run. And after that you run even more to reach your goals."

Every week I will share one inspiration nugget like this .If you like my page and want to join me on the journey of discovering our successes and failures, Don't hesitate to join me on the road to freedom....:)

You can always subscribe this blog Feed or join me on Twitter or Facebook or contact me directly on [email protected]
"If you will not try, you will go to your grave with your song still inside you." -  Henry David Thoreau

I have just finished reading  The Art of Non Conformity book by Chris Gullibeau. This book is not meant for orthodox people who are not willing to change in their lives. If you are one of them, then I think you just landed on a wrong page.



But if you are willing to try and change with me, then you are most welcome to read on.

Are you one of those that sits in cubicles  for more than 50% of your day?

Are you one of those who does wishful dreaming of a perfect life doing what you have always wanted do?

Are you one of those who believe that life is tough but you can be tougher if you just had options?


Well if you are, then welcome to my world which has just been shattered to pieces by what I have read*.  There are many people who are not famous but still live the life that they have always dreamt of.  Not one, Not two, not hundred, there are thousands of people who are doing that.  Here are few of them:

  1. Leo Babuata who is the founder of Zen Habits , a website/blog with 260,000 subscribers and has six kids. Here is the catch, before this, he worked in a low level administrative job in GUAM ( ever heard of this place?)
  2. Chris Gullibeau himself was a volunteer worker in South Africa and did his masters from University of Washington. After that he decided to work for himself rather than going for a cubicle job. His website is one of the most famous ones ( The Art of Non Conformity) and has been featured in CNN and other top news channels in a span of 4 years. Oh By the way, he has also travelled 192 countries in the world in less than 50,000$ budget. He is just 35!
  3. The Excel Dude from India who started his website in 2009 and now earns almost $150,000 per year.

I can go on and on about the examples, but that's not the point here…The point is about thinking what we are doing, is it the right path or the wrong one..

This book has got me thinking that should I go for a cubicle job or should I go for doing something that I want irrespective of what the society thinks? All these examples are of people like you and me , yet they have carved out a way by which they are following their dreams. So why can't we?

Everyone dies but not everyone lives. The question is where are we going ?

Just another person in cubicle or someone who followed their dreams…. 



*The book that I have mentioned is one of the brilliant books that I have read and I would highly recommend to anyone who wants to follow his passion but is afraid of the so called society norms and pressures.

Every Friday I will share one inspirational nugget like this. If you like my page and want to join me on the journey of discovering our successes and failures, Don't hesitate...Let's walk together on the Road To Freedom...

You can always subscribe this blog Feed or join me on Twitter or Facebook or contact me directly on [email protected]


I wish I had known this.....


The ART Of Following your Dreams

"If you will not try, you will go to your grave with your song still inside you." -  Henry David Thoreau

I have just finished reading  The Art of Non Conformity book by Chris Gullibeau. This book is not meant for orthodox people who are not willing to change in their lives. If you are one of them, then I think you just landed on a wrong page.



But if you are willing to try and change with me, then you are most welcome to read on.

Are you one of those that sits in cubicles  for more than 50% of your day?

Are you one of those who does wishful dreaming of a perfect life doing what you have always wanted do?

Are you one of those who believe that life is tough but you can be tougher if you just had options?


Well if you are, then welcome to my world which has just been shattered to pieces by what I have read*.  There are many people who are not famous but still live the life that they have always dreamt of.  Not one, Not two, not hundred, there are thousands of people who are doing that.  Here are few of them:

  1. Leo Babuata who is the founder of Zen Habits , a website/blog with 260,000 subscribers and has six kids. Here is the catch, before this, he worked in a low level administrative job in GUAM ( ever heard of this place?)
  2. Chris Gullibeau himself was a volunteer worker in South Africa and did his masters from University of Washington. After that he decided to work for himself rather than going for a cubicle job. His website is one of the most famous ones ( The Art of Non Conformity) and has been featured in CNN and other top news channels in a span of 4 years. Oh By the way, he has also travelled 192 countries in the world in less than 50,000$ budget. He is just 35!
  3. The Excel Dude from India who started his website in 2009 and now earns almost $150,000 per year.

I can go on and on about the examples, but that's not the point here…The point is about thinking what we are doing, is it the right path or the wrong one..

This book has got me thinking that should I go for a cubicle job or should I go for doing something that I want irrespective of what the society thinks? All these examples are of people like you and me , yet they have carved out a way by which they are following their dreams. So why can't we?

Everyone dies but not everyone lives. The question is where are we going ?

Just another person in cubicle or someone who followed their dreams…. 



*The book that I have mentioned is one of the brilliant books that I have read and I would highly recommend to anyone who wants to follow his passion but is afraid of the so called society norms and pressures.

Every Friday I will share one inspirational nugget like this. If you like my page and want to join me on the journey of discovering our successes and failures, Don't hesitate...Let's walk together on the Road To Freedom...

You can always subscribe this blog Feed or join me on Twitter or Facebook or contact me directly on [email protected]


I wish I had known this.....



earn money by your blog


How to earn money by your bog in Hindi 

यदी आप भी ब्लॉगिंग करते हैं। आप के पास भी यदी एक ब्लॉग या website है और उस पर आप ब्लॉगिंग करते हैं तो आप अपने blog से golden money earn कर सकते हैं । कैसे..?

आप के मन में ये विचार आ रहा होगा कि कैसे..? कैसे एक blogger अपने ब्लॉग से money कमा सकता है...? तो इसका जवाब है ad, जी हाँ ad; ad के दवारा आप एक decent money earn कर सकते हैं, वो भी बिना किसी ज्यादा तीम – झाम के व मेहनत के। बस करना आपको इतना सा है की आप को केवल एक अच्छी advertising company को join करें और फिर अपने blog पर उस company का ad लगाइए और अपनी income को बढाइये।

मैं आप को most popular और best advertising agency के नाम व उनकी पूरी जानकारी दें रही हूँ । इनमें से आप किसी भी ad agency को अपने blog के लिए चुन सकते हैं ।   

  • Ad sense:- सभी ad agency में adsense number 1 पर है। ज्यादातर लोग एडसेंस के एड ही अपने ब्लॉग या वेबसाइट पर लगाना पसंद करते है। क्योंकि adsence बाकि सभी company से ज्यादा अच्छा payment देती है और समय पर। यदि आप भी ऐडसेंस के विज्ञापनों को अपनी website और blog पर लगाना चाहते हैं और ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस link पर क्लिक करे।

  • Clicksor:- ये adsence की तरह ही ज्यादा भुगतान करने वाली ad agency है यदि आपके ब्लॉग या वेबसाइट पर एक दिन में 5000 से ज्यादा विजिटर आते हो तो आप इसके एड अपने blog या website पर लगा सकते हैं। यदि आप भी Clicksor के एड्स अपनी वेबसाइट या ब्लॉग पर लगाना चाहते हैं या ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस लिंक पर क्लिक करे।

  • chitika:-chitika ad agency भी अच्छी ad agency में शामिल है काफी लोग इसके ad अपनी website और blog पर लगाना पसंद करतें हैं। chitikaHindi blog को भी ad के लिए accept करती है आप भी इसके ad अपने ब्लॉग और website पर लगाना चाहते हैं या ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस लिंक पर करें। 

  • Bidvertiser:- ये भी अच्छे एड्स agency की सूची में शामिल है और काफी लोग इसके एड अपने ब्लॉग या वेबसाइट पर लगाना पसंद करते हैं. यदि आप भी Bidvertiser के एड्स को अपनी वेबसाइट व ब्लॉग पर लगाना चाहते है या ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस लिंक पर क्लिक करे। 

  • Yahoo Publisher Network:- Yahoo भी काफी popular ad agency है, लेकिन बहुत से लोगो को मालुम नहीं की ये भी एक प्रति क्लिक भुगतान करने वाली ad agency है। यदि आप इसके एड्स को अपनी वेबसाइट व ब्लॉग पर लगाना चाहते हैं या ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस लिंक पर क्लिक करे।

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How to earn money by your bog in Hindi


earn money by your blog


How to earn money by your bog in Hindi 

यदी आप भी ब्लॉगिंग करते हैं। आप के पास भी यदी एक ब्लॉग या website है और उस पर आप ब्लॉगिंग करते हैं तो आप अपने blog से golden money earn कर सकते हैं । कैसे..?

आप के मन में ये विचार आ रहा होगा कि कैसे..? कैसे एक blogger अपने ब्लॉग से money कमा सकता है...? तो इसका जवाब है ad, जी हाँ ad; ad के दवारा आप एक decent money earn कर सकते हैं, वो भी बिना किसी ज्यादा तीम – झाम के व मेहनत के। बस करना आपको इतना सा है की आप को केवल एक अच्छी advertising company को join करें और फिर अपने blog पर उस company का ad लगाइए और अपनी income को बढाइये।

मैं आप को most popular और best advertising agency के नाम व उनकी पूरी जानकारी दें रही हूँ । इनमें से आप किसी भी ad agency को अपने blog के लिए चुन सकते हैं ।   

  • Ad sense:- सभी ad agency में adsense number 1 पर है। ज्यादातर लोग एडसेंस के एड ही अपने ब्लॉग या वेबसाइट पर लगाना पसंद करते है। क्योंकि adsence बाकि सभी company से ज्यादा अच्छा payment देती है और समय पर। यदि आप भी ऐडसेंस के विज्ञापनों को अपनी website और blog पर लगाना चाहते हैं और ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस link पर क्लिक करे।

  • Clicksor:- ये adsence की तरह ही ज्यादा भुगतान करने वाली ad agency है यदि आपके ब्लॉग या वेबसाइट पर एक दिन में 5000 से ज्यादा विजिटर आते हो तो आप इसके एड अपने blog या website पर लगा सकते हैं। यदि आप भी Clicksor के एड्स अपनी वेबसाइट या ब्लॉग पर लगाना चाहते हैं या ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस लिंक पर क्लिक करे।

  • chitika:-chitika ad agency भी अच्छी ad agency में शामिल है काफी लोग इसके ad अपनी website और blog पर लगाना पसंद करतें हैं। chitikaHindi blog को भी ad के लिए accept करती है आप भी इसके ad अपने ब्लॉग और website पर लगाना चाहते हैं या ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस लिंक पर करें। 

  • Bidvertiser:- ये भी अच्छे एड्स agency की सूची में शामिल है और काफी लोग इसके एड अपने ब्लॉग या वेबसाइट पर लगाना पसंद करते हैं. यदि आप भी Bidvertiser के एड्स को अपनी वेबसाइट व ब्लॉग पर लगाना चाहते है या ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस लिंक पर क्लिक करे। 

  • Yahoo Publisher Network:- Yahoo भी काफी popular ad agency है, लेकिन बहुत से लोगो को मालुम नहीं की ये भी एक प्रति क्लिक भुगतान करने वाली ad agency है। यदि आप इसके एड्स को अपनी वेबसाइट व ब्लॉग पर लगाना चाहते हैं या ज्यादा जानकारी लेना चाहते हैं तो इस लिंक पर क्लिक करे।

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